^... the head and rear hub are the only things that I do use my torque wrenches for but even with the re-torqueing suggested in the 'flat only' text that I've read, the outcome of trying just flats has not been satisfactory. I also try to configure all my engines to do away with head gaskets and make sure that barrel and head surfaces are lapped flat prior to assembly. In doing so I cannot remember the last time (eek... tempting fate!) I had a motor blow, other than when trying the 'flat only' method.
However, I'm really not trying to convince anyone to use my method or anyone else’s, it was more picking up on the point that I keep reading this but personally have had poor results from it and know of a number of others that have read it, tried it, regretted it too. I really do think that it is a case of finding what works for you and sticking with it.
As they say... don't knock it until you've tried it... but there are things that I draw the line at!
Adam